Our family suffered an incredibly unexpected and devastating loss yesterday that has left a deep void in our hearts and lives. With heavy hearts and profound sadness, we share that Gary, the beloved partner of my brother for 21 wonderful years, has passed away.

It’s hard to put into words the depth of our grief and shock. Gary was not just a partner, but a pillar of strength, love, and unwavering support in our family. He was someone who brought warmth, laughter, and a quiet steadiness wherever he went. His presence was a source of comfort and light, and now that he is gone, it feels as though the world has dimmed.

For more than two decades, Gary stood beside my brother through life’s highs and lows. Their bond was unshakable, built on deep love, mutual respect, and a shared life that was full of memories, laughter, and quiet, everyday joy. Their relationship was one of those rare and beautiful connections that inspire everyone who witnesses it.

Gary was also a devoted father and a proud grandfather. He loved his children with all his heart, and his eyes lit up whenever he spoke of his grandchildren. Family meant everything to him, and he made it his life’s mission to provide, protect, and nurture those he loved. Whether it was attending school events, family dinners, holiday gatherings, or quiet moments at home, Gary poured his soul into being there — truly present — for the people he cared for.

He was the kind of man who didn’t need to say much to be heard. His actions spoke volumes. His kindness, patience, and compassion left an impression on everyone he met. He was the one who always showed up, the one who could be counted on, the one who made others feel valued and safe just by being himself. Gary had a quiet wisdom and a deep well of empathy that touched many lives.

This loss has shattered us in ways we are still trying to comprehend. My brother has lost not only his partner, but his best friend and soulmate. Gary’s children have lost their guiding light, and his grandchildren have lost a doting, loving presence that brought joy into their lives. And we, as a family, have lost a man who brought so much peace, love, and harmony into our world.

Please, we ask that you keep my brother, Gary’s children, his grandchildren, and all of our extended family in your thoughts and prayers during this incredibly painful time. The road ahead will be difficult, but we will walk it together — strengthened by the love Gary gave us and the legacy of compassion, resilience, and unity he leaves behind.

Gary, we love you. We will always love you. Your memory will live on in every story shared, every smile remembered, and every life you touched. Thank you for the years, the love, and the beauty you brought into our lives. Rest peacefully, knowing that you were deeply cherished and will never be forgotten.